How to Increase Sex Drive in Men Over 40

Michael Jessimy
Medically reviewed by Michael Jessimy Reg. Pharmacist — Research analysis by Alex Eriksson

As you enter your 40s and the years beyond, testosterone production naturally starts to decline.This drop in testosterone production can result in a slew of health and sexual issues, with one of the most troublesome issues being a significant decrease in sex drive. Luckily, this doesn’t have to be the case. With a few healthy lifestyle choices, you can bring your libido back. Here’s our guide on how to increase sex drive in men over 40:

Eat and Drink to Boost Your Libido

If you can improve your health through your diet, you can also do the same for your libido. Here are our top food and drink recommendations that can help improve your sex drive.

Beetroot Juice

Beetroots contains nitrates and nitrites that your body can convert to nitric oxide. Boosting your nitric oxide levels can increase vasodilation, meaning your blood vessels relax and expand, allowing more blood to flow through. This is essentially what Viagra does to your body, and we know how well that works.

You can eat it as a vegetable, but it is better taken as a juice. Research has found that doing so has more profound effects than cooking and eating it, as the amount you would need to elicit the same action via consumption is very large .


Pomegranate Juice

Pomegranate contains significant antioxidants that can help your libido, in addition to sexual and overall health. Daily consumption of pomegranate juice has been found to reduce plaque in the arteries, increase nitric oxide production, improve blood pressure, lower bad cholesterol, and slow down lipid oxidation.

Aside from these benefits, pomegranate juice can increase your testosterone levels, making its addition to your diet a good idea.

Chili Peppers

Chili peppers contain capsaicin. This substance is the chemical compound responsible for the spiciness of peppers.

Through the heat it induces in your body, capsaicin increases your blood flow and heart rate. This high cardiovascular activity induces the release of endorphins in your body.

Research has shown that when these two effects are combined, sexual libido is stimulated and there is an increased response to sexual stimuli, in a manner mimicing the "sensation" you get from anticipation of sexual activity.

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Cruciferous Vegetables

Examples of cruciferous vegetables include broccoli, Brussel sprouts, cauliflower, bok choy, and cabbages. These vegetables contain the compound indole-3-carbinol, which can help your body enhance the metabolism of estrogen, and process their elimination via urine. This is great, as increasing estrogen metabolism means lower blood values of the hormone.

Dark Chocolate

When you eat chocolate that is closer to its raw and purest state, you’re getting more of the natural and beneficial compounds it possesses.

One such compound is phenylethylamine (PEA). PEA can induce excitement, attraction, and euphoria. It does this by stimulating the release of dopamine in your brain’s pleasure centers.

Dark chocolate also contains the amino acids tryptophan and arginine.

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Grapes are rich in the phenol compound resveratrol. It can increase your testosterone levels bypreventing aromatization, which is the process of testosterone conversion into estrogens.

Resveratrol is found in the skin of grapes so make sure you’re not peeling it off. Other fruits rich in resveratrol include raspberries, blueberries, and mulberries.


Oysters are rich in certain amino acids that can boost your sex drive – aspartic acid and methyl-d-aspartate. Research has found that it can increase testosterone in men and progesterone in women. An increase in these hormones triggers increased sexual aggression and sexual stimuli sensitivity.

Other bivalve mollusks also contain these amino acids as well. Examples of such include clams, mussels, and scallops.

brazil nut

Brazil Nuts

Brazil nuts are an excellent source of selenium, a critical trace mineral that can help in achieving optimal testosterone levels and improving semen quality.

Selenium is also essential for healthy thyroid function, with your thyroid gland responsible to a substantial degree for regulation of metabolism.


Watermelon rinds contain abundant amounts of the amino acid citrulline. This amino acid is used by the body to produce arginine.

As mentioned, citrulline is an essential component in the production of nitric oxide. Intake of this amino acid has shown to increase nitric oxide by up to eight times your baseline levels.


Take Nutritional and Natural Supplements to Enhance Your Diet

There are a number of supplements that have been proven able to increase sex drive and boost testosterone. Some of these include fenugreek extract, gingko biloba, horny goat weed, maca extract, Korean black ginseng, yohimbe, and black ginger. These natural supplements have been proven by both traditional medicine and modern science to have libido-boosting properties.

Aside from these, you can also take amino acid supplements. These supplements can provide you with the necessary essential amino acids that can be synthesized into amino acids that boost libido.

Exercise Regularly

Your libido is influenced primarily by your testosterone levels, and as it turns out you’re more likely to produce sufficient testosterone hormones by engaging is consistent weight training.

Being active allows you to maintain healthy muscle mass and good energy levels, and keep body fat low. All these have been found to help maintain optimal testosterone levels.

Learn How to Manage Stress

As your stress hormone rises, your testosterone levels fall. It is for this reason that sex is the last thing on your mind after a stressful day or week. Couple this with poor stress management, and you're sure to just have more trouble getting started in the bedroom.

You’ve got no control over what life throws at you so what you’re left with is learning how to respond to these stressful situations. Learn how to manage your stress and how to unwind after a day’s work.

Drink Alcohol In Moderation

Your liver is tasked with the metabolism of numerous toxins, the actions of which are atered following consumption of alcohol. Studies have shown that alcohol consumption exerts actions on both the brain and testes, diminishing secretion of testosterone and its signalling hormones, and hastens its clearance from blood

For a healthy individual, it is recommended to not drink more than one alcoholic drink per day. For those with low testosterone, you should forego it altogether.

Alcohol itself has no real nutritive value, and coupled with its blood androgen reducing actions, it makes a strong case for avoiding drinks if preserving your sexual health is important to you

By using pregnenolone cream or pregnenolone supplements, the levels of the compound in the body increases, and this brings about various benefits such as fatigue relief, and delay of the aging process.

Get Adequate Sleep

Sleep deprivation can lower your testosterone levels. And, when your testosterone levels drop, your libido would soon follow.

Make sure that you’re getting at least 7 hours of sleep every night. For good quality sleep, keep a consistent sleeping schedule, avoid exercising three hours before bed, and keep your bedroom comfortable and dark.

The Bottom Line

Your sex drive is just one aspect of your overall health. Using this guideline on how to increase sex drive in men over 40 can be a great starting point in maintaining other aspects of your health as well.

Alex Eriksson (Research Analysis)

Alex Eriksson is the founder of Anabolic Health, a men’s health blog dedicated to providing honest and research-backed advice for optimal male hormonal health. Anabolic Health aspires to become a trusted resource where men can come and learn how to fix their hormonal problems naturally, without pharmaceuticals.


Michael Jessimy is a Pharmacist by profession, who is also a decorated amateur level heavyweight bodybuilder. He possesses a unique mix of knowledge encompassing fitness, nutrition and medical expertise, making him a specialist in matters of health. He currently manages one of the largest retail chain pharmacies in his native homeland. Check out his books on health and nutrition on Amazon.

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